Simon is three years old!

It amazes me that Simon is three - in both an 'already' and in an 'only' way.

Some things about Simon now:

1. He sleeps in a toddler bed and has for a couple months. 
2. When we transitioned to toddler bed we also went for bed time potty training, which went amazingly smoothly. Only a handful of accidents in these past months.
3. Though he was day potty trained at 2 and rarely had accidents after the summer (so he went all fall and winter with almost no accidents), he has had a really hard time the past month and a half or so. Or maybe we've had the hard time? He has had 2-3 accidents a day. 
4. He is amazingly verbal. He listens, understands and repeats. Watch what you say around him!
5. He is not really shy around strangers, though he gets reserved in new situations. He always orders his own meals when we are at a counter or restaurant and charms every waiter/waitress that he interacts with.
6. He is definitely trying to assert himself. We hear a whole lot of whys and a definitely have some negotiation. With the Why's we have been trying to logic him through it. EX: Simon: Why is this garage so big?  Mama: What is a garage for? (sleeping cars) How many cars do you see in this garage? (one, two, .... lots) Does the garage need to be big or small to hold this many cars? (big) So why is the garage so big?
7. If you talk sternly to him or raise your voice at all, Simon immediately lashes out with an angry 'no'. In that mode he is pretty stubborn.
8. He is a very stubborn kid, which is good and bad.
9. He loves music and to dance. We have dance parties or rock out on guitar/harmonica pretty often.
10. Simon is very concerned about how we are doing. He is very proud of making us happy and after we have a rough patch he will always ask 'are you happy' over and over until you want to yell. Usually he is asking because he knows you are not happy. 
11. He is starting to like his sister and, especially when no one is looking, will be sweet to her. Not to say that he's willing to share his cars with her - don't talk crazy - just that he is willing to say goodnight or kiss/hug her.
12. Naps are a struggle. He is still taking a nap, but he really doesn't like it. When/if he does finally fall asleep he'll sleep for 2-3 hours. If he doesn't nap he's a grouch.
13. He sleeps with Kitty (formerly known as Jelly Cat) and Puppy (formally known as Chili Dog). Kitty holds the special place of honor and is the one that talks, is brought everywhere, babied, and is often a bad influence. She is also occasionally used as a bat or whip - which causes her to be removed from the room and he has to sleep without her.
14. There is a night-light clock in his room that changes to green when it is alright for him to wake up. It changes over at 6am. Simon is usually awake and at my side of the bed between 5 and 5:30. I take him to the potty, then sits in his room and reads until his clock turns green. 
15. He has started lying. Not big stuff yes, but he will occasionally come in and tell us his clock is green when it isn't yet. 
16. He is capable of pottying on his own, but for some reason usually just won't do it unless someone goes with him.
17. He loves all sports and is surprisingly good at them. We have to stop playing baseball in the back yard because he hits 3/4 of the balls into the neighbor's yard. (Alternately we could just get more balls)
18. He is really is a sweet boy though he has been having some temper tantrums lately. He will hit the table or wall and say 'no!'. Sadly Jenn often gets the brunt of his temper and he has even hit her and bitten her once. We have been zero tolerance with it, but punishment is hard since he now laughs at time outs.
19. Because time outs aren't working, everything 'fun' has been removed from his room - all books, couch pillows, extra blankets and toys. The room is no longer a place to play. He is allowed a book to read in the morning when he wakes up before his light turns green and we read books still before nap and bed. However any books are a privilege and we will remove the 3-4 books that migrate in (nothing makes a mom feel meaner than to hear her kid screaming from his bedroom, MAMA PLEASE BRING ME BACK MY BOOKS! PLEASE PUH-LEASE.) 
20. Due to all above, bed and nap times have had to become more strict as well. He gets one warning and if he doesn't stay in bed then kitty and puppy have to come out. 
21. He is totally psyched to go to school in the fall. We have been going on play dates and he remembers and will randomly talk about his teacher, Ms. Zyrel (like Tyrell but with a Z)
22. Simon still has very little screen time, but we are not nearly as strict about it. He occasionally watches Daniel Tiger. The only movie he watches is Cars.  (Lillian is not allowed to watch, so it has to happen during her nap.)
23. Simon is totally obsessed with the x-box controllers, which he never gets to use. On very rare occasion as a special reward Alan will play a running/jumping video game with him. 
24. We introduced games on the iPad for the airplane ride to Arizona and he remembers them quite clearly. He will often ask for the iPad, though is usually disappointed. When he does get it he has about an hours worth of focus before he wants to go outside and play (same with TV or video games with Alan). 

Simon doing the robot dance this morning on his birthday.